My #1 Tip for Any Couple on Their Wedding Day
If I could offer just one piece of advice to every couple on their wedding day, it would be this: schedule intentional alone time together.
In my experience coordinating weddings throughout North Carolina, this is the one thing that always makes a difference for couples. I’ve seen firsthand how fast a wedding day flies by. Between getting ready, photos, greeting guests, and dancing the night away, it’s easy to go the entire day without a quiet moment together.
That’s why my #1 tip for any couple—whether you’re planning a large celebration or an intimate gathering—is to carve out a little private time, just for the two of you.
The Best Time for Alone Time? Right After the Ceremony
My favorite moment to schedule this special time is immediately following the ceremony. You’ve just exchanged vows, emotions are high, and it’s the perfect chance to step away from the crowd, soak in what just happened, and simply breathe together.
Whether it’s five minutes tucked away in a quiet room, a private toast, or a short walk together before photos begin, this moment can help ground you and make the day feel more meaningful—not just a blur of activity.
Why Couples Often Forget This
Most couples don’t realize they need to schedule alone time—or they feel guilty stepping away from guests or family.
But here’s the truth: Your guests will understand, and this is your wedding day. Having even a few minutes of quiet together will help you both feel present and connected throughout the rest of the celebration.
Without it, many couples tell me their day felt like it flew by in a whirlwind without stopping to really savor the moment.
How a Wedding Coordinator Helps Protect Your Alone Time
As your wedding coordinator, I make sure this moment isn’t overlooked. I’ll:
Build it into your wedding timeline
Guide you to your quiet space after the ceremony
Handle bridal party, guests, and vendors during that time
Keep everything on schedule while you take a breather
I’m here to make sure your day feels calm, intentional, and filled with memories you’ll actually remember—starting with this small but meaningful pause.
Your Wedding Day Should Be More Than Just a Blur
You’ve spent months planning every detail of your wedding day—but the most important moments aren’t always the ones on your timeline.
By scheduling intentional alone time, you’ll walk away from your wedding with memories that last far beyond the photos and the party.
If you’re planning your wedding and want help creating a timeline that feels relaxed and meaningful, I’d love to chat! As a North Carolina wedding coordinator, I specialize in creating smooth, stress-free celebrations where couples feel truly present and cared for every step of the way.